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::Now, after reading it, I ask You, why You are pointing this to '''me'''? | ::Now, after reading it, I ask You, why You are pointing this to '''me'''? | ||
"A common mistake of misguided advocacy is when a person appoints himself a mediator and proceeds with judging the sides by telling them whether they are right or wrong instead of helping the sides to better state their positions and to find common grounds. It is not uncommon that one side is indeed wrong, and in such a case a mediator begins to appear to take sides thus alienating the wrong side and triggering their defense instincts, further entrenching them against an amicable resolution." | "A common mistake of misguided advocacy is when a person appoints himself a mediator | ||
and proceeds with judging the sides by telling them whether they are right or wrong | |||
instead of helping the sides to better state their positions and to find common grounds. | |||
It is not uncommon that one side is indeed wrong, and in such a case | |||
a mediator begins to appear to take sides thus alienating the wrong side | |||
and triggering their defense instincts, further entrenching them against an amicable resolution." | |||
[http://wikiindex.org/index.php?title=User_talk:Rock-O-Jello&diff=prev&oldid=194770 This] is exactly what '''You''' are used to do. Now I got a link for You to read it carefully: [[wp:Psychological projection]] [[User_talk:Manorainjan|'''<span style="color: orange;">Manorainjan</span>''']] 11:16, 25 January 2017 (PST) | [http://wikiindex.org/index.php?title=User_talk:Rock-O-Jello&diff=prev&oldid=194770 This] is exactly what '''You''' are used to do. Now I got a link for You to read it carefully: [[wp:Psychological projection]] [[User_talk:Manorainjan|'''<span style="color: orange;">Manorainjan</span>''']] 11:16, 25 January 2017 (PST) | ||